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britjojo



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Post Fri Mar 30, 2007 2:51 am     Family frowning on dating outside? Reply with quote
I finally stopped being bullied about my dating English guys when I left the country and married an American. But until that time my family had been very set that I should only marry a Polish Jew. The family on the whole has held true to this and it was hopped for me too-they even tried introducing me to a bunch of guys.

Did this happen to you?
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kisna



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Post Fri Mar 30, 2007 7:14 am     Reply with quote
My parents do not know I have an affair with a girl. Otherwise they would kill me really. I have affair with a so called lower caste girl. I dont belive in this things but they do. I dont know what I am going to do in future.
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britjojo



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Post Fri Mar 30, 2007 6:32 pm     Reply with quote
I have never been involved in a culture with a caste system, and so I cannot imagine the difficulties that this would bring to you. I hope you sort things out.
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kisna



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Post Mon Apr 02, 2007 8:07 am     Reply with quote
Yeah, I am not also involved in such things. But my family does. I cant go against my family and I can also go against my girlfriend. I am in a kind of dillema right now.
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randle



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Post Tue Apr 03, 2007 2:54 am     Reply with quote
Some familes find it hard to except the mixing of race? But you are grown and when it boils down to it you have to choice.
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kisna



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Post Fri Apr 06, 2007 7:14 am     Reply with quote
Yeah.
But its really hard to choose between your family and the one to whom you love.
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randle



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Post Fri Apr 06, 2007 8:39 pm     Reply with quote
So what is it that you do. I mean I know I would have some doubts because what if you choose your love and they forsake you. Is your family going to accept you back?
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kisna



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Post Sun Apr 08, 2007 8:45 am     Reply with quote
I dont know what is going to happen.
They dont know yet that I have affair with a girl.
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randle



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Post Mon Apr 09, 2007 6:42 pm     Reply with quote
Well I have a question? how are you defining "lower caste." when you say it? What is meant by that?
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xeric



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Post Fri Jun 15, 2007 4:29 am     Reply with quote
for me there is no problem with caste and religion. i am fine and even my family are cool towards this things. my elder brother married with an american gal. and my another brother is engaged with Israeli girl when he was there for job.

and its fine with my family.
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shinningstar



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Post Wed Jun 20, 2007 8:15 am     Reply with quote
My parents are very strict about datings and relationship. The window on my room served as my door for me to attend parties with friends.
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sacback1



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Post Sat Jul 14, 2007 7:08 am     Reply with quote
I did not realize there is a caste system in Poland. Please elaborate a little. It just amazes me.
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Post Tue May 06, 2008 3:08 pm     dating Reply with quote
Nice job! It's really nice link that you have shared with us.
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